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Im not to well with conversations that dont deal with electronics or video games and there is this one girl i dont know much about her in drivers ed, i used to go to youth with her, that looks cute and every time i look at her shes looking at me and at the end of class she runs off with other friends before i can catch up to her,and another girl i like better than the first,she likes to dress in the jacket over t-shirt way she knows i like her and shes really kind we say hi to each other and at youth group she'll somtimes run up to me for a hug.what would be some ways to get there attention?

I am not the most popular guy at my school but I am a very social person with girls or guys. You just have to be friendly and act like yourself. You don't want to try to cover up your nerdyness if you are looking for a real relationship because it wont last. If the person that you like does not like you for who you are and cant adapt to your personality then your screwed.

If you just want to hook up with the girl under any circumstances regardless of what it takes you have to find out what that girl likes. Is she a prep, nerd, athlete, goth, etc. Then post some of that to be able to give accurate advice.

Tell her how much she reminds you of <insert favorite female video game character> ;^P

Seriously, write a note. Girls love that kind of stuff, and even if it's not the best thing you've ever written (and DON'T use that internet speak or she'll think you're retarded) the attempt is everything. And if you post the note on here, we could help you edit and shape it.

It helps when your funny.

she reminds me of idk umm... she likes to be funny and joke around like shes a tough guy umm. she reminds me of a drunk lara croft im not sure of how to start to write it out.

Well my advice may not help u because i have no life but, the best way i could think of is make yourself interesting but misterious. What i mean custimize your psp or buy a blue ds something that is an eye catcher. When she is interested in you make yourself look smart like you have a good future ahead. Don't do any guyish thing like jokes guys make. act as if your not interested in her. she will want to learn more about you and....... can't think of any thing else.

honestly...just tell her like it is. Just say look i like you, i think your sexy, whatever you choose...can i take you out sometime. If she actually looks at you and notices you or likes you then she wont refuse no matter what you say or how you bring it to her simply because everythings mutual. Girls like confidence dont write no notes or send your friend or any of that crap cause most girls will just laugh at that. I used to be just like you until one day i just stopped giving a damn n just went up to any and every chick i thought looked good. To this day i haven't been turned down once. I've actually gotten a story from one the chicks i picked up where she told me she liked how i approached n didnt send no friend and how most guys have sent their friends cause they felt intimidated from her looking good. Not to toot my own horn but back when i was just foolin around i had 5 girls and 4 side chicks...bottom line be yourself, be confident, and be straight to the point. Of course if its just a random girl you see on the street throw in some convo then gradually get to the names n numbers. Not every girl will say yes, not every girl will say no. So youll get one eventually regardless.

Decent advice staxx. A lot of girls I talk to say they hate when guys beat around the bush. Confidence is something that they do like. Go straight to the point and if you get rejected then try again.

lol u cant be serious

i was talking to my friend about all this and she told be she could hook me up with somone if i let her know what im looking for in a girl. could this work?

What grade are you in? what you say MIGHT work but it depends on the girls maturity level. If you are in high school or above then I doubt it will work.

y would u say that?-----(btw im going into 10th grade) and im looking for a creepy in a funny way like girl like me

When guys aren't straight forward and they have there friends ask girls out or use myspace, girls think that you are really immature and prude.

Co-sign to that.

BTW to TC, I was just kidding about telling her she reminds you of a game character. Don't EVER do that!

And if you're getting into 10th grade, you're getting to an age where it's perfectly acceptable to just whip your dick out. They like that. Confidence!

I'm just going to assume that you have FRIENDS that are girls (even though I worry about many members here). Just go up and ask one of them how they'd appreciate being asked out via Myspace or having a friend of someone that likes them be the one to ask them out... it's so retarded.

If you don't have the confidence and gusto to ask the girl out for yourself - what makes you think that you can keep a relationship going with her? You know, you DO have to talk to the girl... and anyways, no offense, but you two won't work out. This recipe doesn't make the cake.

too cowardly to approach her yourself + most likely don't know a damn thing about one another = surefire failure.

Having your friend ask her out for you or doing something like that over myspace or AIM/ MSN etc. is just adding ridicule as well.

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